I am worried for the young ones. Evidently many sat under numskull shepherds who banged on purity until it became something gnarled, an assortment of rings and cards to bar the entrance to Eden. Those men oughta say they’re sorry, but I doubt that’ll ever happen. The rub to all this is the propagation of bad news. Is sex body on body and manner and possibly amazing technique? Yes, although (take it from me) technique requires a fidelity to time. But its much more than that. Sex is soul-blood, and each coupling a transfusion of our imperfect secrets and dreams. As such it was never pure, never virginal. It is not something to fear; however, it is worthy of our cherishing for it creates our remembrances.